12 Signs To Know He’s The One…

August 18, 2009 at 3:29 pm (Christian Dating, Courtship, Encouragement, Friendship, Love, Relationships, Thoughts)

1. He understands.

He always tries to see your side of things. This means that even if he’s seen you get upset or cry about something a hundred times before, he still tries to calm you down and makes you feel better.

2. He tells you.

Oh those three special words, the words some men have major trouble saying. Well, if he says them often, count yourself lucky. Hearing him say “I love you,” and knowing he means every word, is proof that he’s one of a kind.

3. He shows you.

We all know most men have trouble expressing their feelings with words. So, sometimes they use other forms of expression. Forms of expression include: taking you out for dinner when he thinks you need a break from cooking or understanding that you might need some time to yourself. While you may like to hear those sweet whispers of affection from him, it’s a fact that actions speak louder than words.

4. He listens to you.

Is he’s genuinely interested in what you’re saying when you talk to him? Does he give you his undivided attention during your conversations, instead of having the television blaring in the background? It’s an important sign, if he shows he’s really concerned about your feelings, and especially what you have to say.

5. He’s happy around you.

Smiles? Laughter? Excited to spend time with you and not his guy friends? Glad just to be with you? If he can’t get enough of you, it’s a sure sign that he’s really attracted and in love.

6. He compliments you.

He notices when you change something about your appearance. He appreciates when you take the time to look great. When he looks you up and down admiringly with a little smile and tells you how beautiful you are, you know you matter.

7. He takes care of you.

Is he your own personal guardian angel? Does he baby you when you’re sick and nurse you back to health? If the answer is ‘yes’, then it’s a pretty sure bet you’ve got a good thing going.

8. His friends and family like you.

You can gauge how a man feels about you from the way his circle of friends and family treat you. If you are held in high regard, and they have embraced you like one of their own, it’s a fact he’s been telling them how happy he is to have you in his life.

9. He appreciates you.

Telling you how proud he is of your achievements or praising you to his family and friends is a wonderful signal. It’s a sign he is in deep appreciation of who you are to him.

10. He asks for your opinion.

He asks for your advice, considers it and may put it to good use. When important decisions are at stake concerning him, he doesn’t just go ahead and decide on his own what he thinks is right.

11. He’s interested in what you want too.

Let’s say you’re both watching television and you want to watch Desperate Housewives while he’d like to catch 24. You know how men are when it comes to the remote control! If he lets you watch your show of choice, not in a grudging manner, but because he wants you to be happy, you’ve got a winner. Give him extra points if he actually sits through it with you!

12. He makes you feel special.

Finally, is he the kind of guy who’s always trying to keep the romance alive? Bringing you flowers or breakfast in bed are both really wonderful ways to know he cares. If he’s always going out of his way to make you feel exceptional hold on tight, the man is a keeper.

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  1. Naomi said,

    I really love this because I have been out of a relationship for almost a year now and never got anything good after my rebound. I had to check out this page because I did not want to be vulnerable to any guy who comes along. Right now I have my standards raised and I do not have to waste so much time before I know 9if HE is the one or not.

  2. destiny said,

    it all true in all this 12 points

  3. Mercy butta said,

    what if he has all of that but he is a not a believer?

    • redlovewriter said,

      ah, i kinda overlooked the reply button.. ^^ Anyway, that sure is pretty difficult. But hopefully, if both of you love each other very much, it’s not impossible that he will also be a believer. You said he has all the 12 signs so hopefully, it would not be hard for him. Pray and ask. BELIEVE. God has plans. ^^

  4. redlovewriter said,

    So, I found mine. ^^ ♥

  5. redlovewriter said,

    @Mercy Butta: That sure is pretty difficult. But hopefully, if both of you love each other very much, it’s not impossible that he will also be a believer. You said he has all the 12 signs so hopefully, it would not be hard for him. Pray and ask. BELIEVE. God has plans. ^^

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